Meaning of Valentine’s Day? February 19, 2007
Posted by xiaoxue in Moving Thoughts.1 comment so far
Ok, we all know how valentine’s day come about. However, after many many many centuries, wat’s the real meaning of it? Is it a day for girls to brag and guys to splurge? Has the meaning of valentine’s day being linked up with the number of gifts or in simplier term, money. If that’s the case, valentine’s day has indeed lost its meaning and purpose.
Valentine is a day where most places will break the record of “most couple being seen” than any other days. Girlfriends will clutch to their boyfriends’ arms while holding a bouquet of flowers as they walk down the street of Orchard Road. Some bimbo gfs would take a quick glance of others and compare whose bouquet is bigger because bigger bouquet to them means:
Your Boyfriend Loves You More.
The one with bigger bouquet will win & she continues walking down the street with her head stuck up as high as a peacock, proudly showing off the dozens of going-to-wit-soon flowers.. the one loses will secretly ‘blame’ their boyfriends for not splurging enough money on them unlike others. (this scenario only applies to certain ppl…not u? okiee..maybe others.)
Tell me which is more romantic.
1) Receiving flowers & gifts during special occasions ONLY. He nv fail to show up with flowers but its only during ur birthday or vdae…very routine, every year would be the same.
or
2) Receiving flowers & gifts on any other days –> ‘normal days’, just wanna give u a surprise even if its just during an usual date.. he would love to see the surprise look on ur face and a smile which comes straight from the heart right after.
It’s wierd why guys don’t hef the habit of giving gifts or flower or any other days like their anniversaries or just any other normal dates. Moreover, flowers are cheaper and the gifts won’t be snatched out-of-stock on normal days compared to v’day. Afterall, it’s more romantic to give small surprises in between the 365 days rite? It’s like asking the guys the same question: would u prefer ur gf to kiss and hug u inbetween the 365 days or just be given damn lotsa kisses and hugs on v’day itself? Hmmm…get my point?
Does spending time with ur partner on this day and neglecting her for the rest of the 364 days shows that u love her more than anybody else in the world? To some guys, it might be an ‘annual task’ for him to donate a part of their yearly bonus in return for less quarrels and more love for the near future..sounds like a good investment to me, and maybe its just something which they must do for their partner or else end up being labelled as a bad boyfriend.
Recently someone told me he does not have any dates on Vday..even the ugliest and fattest friend of his gets a date and he felt like a loser! C’mon, dateless on Vday doesn’t mean you’re a loser or anything..To me, a loser is someone who cheats on other ppl’s feelings..someone who just want to be with ppl they dun love in exchange for luxuries. Well, we all know everyday is valentine’s day if u truly love a person =)
Is it just me? February 18, 2007
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Her Diary
Is the so-called ‘honeymoon’ period over? Am I just thinking too much or because i’m made to feel this way? Either way, i have this feeling that we’ve drifted abit. Though we see each other almost everyday, it’s just isn’t the same as last time. Spiritually, are we still connected? Do you feel the way i feel? I hef so many questions in my mind..
We used to have long chats at nite. Nowadays, u’ll be the first to doze off. When you say you wanted to rest for awhile, it ended up to few hours of sleep. Have you spared a thought for me who’s waiting for u? You said you wouldn’t make me cry again, but why did my tears drop again? When i asked you if you wanted to go out, you said ‘no’…let’s stay at home and watch tv, you’ll meet me online. Now that i’m online, you told me you wanted to play billard. You said it would be a fast one with a couple of games. 2 hours after ur last sms at 12mn, you said you stayed on because you saw your friends. I’m not angry because you stayed. Have you thought about me who’s at home, waiting for u?
Have you started to take me for granted? Unknowingly, u’ve broken my heart. Because of you, i’ve gave up alot of things. Do you really think tat i’m always free every evening after your work? In fact, no…it’s because i arranged everything before evening so that i can meet you after work. All you know is that u hefta meet your brothers. However, at the same time, did u realise that i’ve neglected my friends? You know i’ve never said ‘no’ when u wanna meet your brothers. I’m not blaming u that i’ve neglected my friends. The point i wanna bring across to you is that, i’ve given up alot of things just for you and how much you meant to me. Do you know how sad i was when i’m typing this entry? You always say that you will sms me later. Now, let me tell you why i’ve always replied so fast. It’s because i’m waiting for your sms to come and i’m practically looking at my hp all the time. However, when you say u’ll sms me later, it’ll usually be in a couple of hours time. Did you know that the wait is torturing and long? It’s already 3.30am when i typed this blog but i still haven’t received ur sms. Should i wait or should i not? I’ve prepared something for you but seems like i can’t show it to you today..
His Diary
It’s new year eve. My brothers asked me out and since i’m free, i should go. It’s ok that u’re at home because you hef ur tv with u. Ohh…i miss my brothers. Happy new year!
