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Charming guy vs. Sissy guy January 8, 2007

What makes a guy charming? Looks? Money? Educational level? Nah…none of the above. It may seems hard to be a charming guy. But, if you know exactly what makes a man charming, you’ll realise it isn’t hard at all. All the men in the world, if u wanna impress any girls out there and proved them tat u’re just as equally charming, take special notice on the following blog entry! *grins*

The first thing which u must possess in order to be a charming man must be none other than courtesy. From very basic courtesy like greeting people to all the gentleman acts. Yes, being gentleman is also part of a charming man. In the sense that, most charming men are gentlemen! Hahaha! Small acts like obeying the ‘ladies first’ rule or pulling a chair for a lady are qualities that make up a gentleman. It may not take you alot of time and effort but it meant alot to a lady. Thus, ladies usually label such guy as a ‘charming guy’.

The next thing u gotta have is to be able to put yourself in other’s shoes. Be able to feel for another person and know the consequences of your acts and words. Most importantly, be responsible for all your words and actions. Think before you do or say anything so that it would not hurt another party especially a girl. I’m sure you’ve heard of all the stuffs that ‘girls are made of water’ and thus, they cry easily. How well-said. Never make a girl cry because of what you did or say.

Every girl is a little princess since they were born. A princess to all their parents and to people who dotes on them. Since then, they were showered with lotsa TLC. However, as they starts to grow up, they don’t receive love and care as often now. Maybe that’s one of the reason why every girl yearns to be a princess. So much so that they may list their future occupation to be a princess. It may sound ridiculous and unrealistic to some people. True, in this realistic world, there can never be such thing as being a princess. However, some girls may wish to attain it spiritually. In short, receive the TLC they used to receive when they were young and not exactly do nothing like a princess. Who says that princess always do nothing but to enjoy life? You just don’t know princess well enough… =P

Oh yah, back to our main topic. The last point is to shower your loved one with lotsa TLC. Because the girls yearn for attention, care and love! Hence, it will make you look a more charming man if you can provide them with that. Sounds simple huh…but it’s not easy to do so. Practising all the above as often as you remember, sooner or later, it will become part of you and you will realise it is not that tough afterall.

Talking so much on how to be a charming guy. I’ll now touch on how to make you look sissy. Other than behaving ‘girly’, you’ll just hefta do the vice versa on the above points. When a girl says u’re sissy, it may mean that you’re un-charmed. Well, girls tend to use simplified words which is not exactly what they meant. For example, when they say a guy is cute, it doesn’t mean he is as cute as a baby. Rather, he is handsome or good-looking. It’s just that cute tends to be easier to say and it comes out of the mouth easily. The bottom line is, you decide whether you want to be a charming or sissy guy!

[[The presence of charming guys made the petty guys look sissy]]